You're So Strong
Well, since you're so strong. Thank you.Someone had just said to me before I read this ‘You are very resilient!’ so I probably needed to read your Monday morning piece………When my husband died (some 33 years ago, I find, to my astonishment! That’s what people hope, because it gives them comfort that it won’t happen to them, that life make sense and has order, and they don’t need to come any closer to find out how much pain the person is really in, because it’s too scary.Thank you so much for this powerful reminder. The circuit supported me through all the diagnostic tests, and, as soon as the consultant gave me the diagnosis, they did their best to find ways to help me. So many echoes in what you’ve written that I appreciate.I agree we should not put pressure on people to be strong in a crisis; there is nothing wrong with seeking support when you need it. Just what I needed today. Grief persists but there is God and prayer and the church.Thanks Cat. Life truly does suck sometimes!! “You’re so strong.” “Your strength is inspiring.” “I wouldn’t be strong enough to live with a chronic illness like you do.” “I’d just give up if I were you.” Perhaps these, or similar, sentences sound familiar. Thank you. I’d throw it right in the pile of other cliches and platitudes.People in pain need a safe space to speak their truth, without judgment.Please, for the love of everyone who is hurting, let’s stop telling people in pain how STRONG they are, and instead let’s ask how they’re really doing. Did I survive because so strong? “I agree. Might they no longer see us as capable in other areas, because we’ve proved ourselves fragile in this?The need to be ‘strong’ – to be seen to be coping, to avoid showing weakness – is often thought to be a significant part of the reason that young men are more likely to take their own lives than young women are. Or leadership which admits to vulnerability, asks for help, admits mistakes, says ‘sorry’ where appropriate, and asks others to pray for us?Of course, there will be times when we have to be strong, to do the things that need to be done, to support the people that need to be supported.
So many dreams, so much more to achieve. Thank you xBeautifully written from the heart Angela. You mightn't think so but I know, you're so strong. Try not to break me baby you're so strong. My child has Downs Syndrome, but that doesn’t make me strong.
You're so sexy You're so strong Ooh, you turn me on You're so sexy You're so strong You turn me on You're so classy You got style Mona Lisa couldn't match your smile It’s intended to be (and perhaps often is) very affirming – effectively a way of saying “I don’t think I could cope half as well as you are, with what you’re going through.” But it’s a… I wanted the pain to end. I am the co-creator and facilitator of an Infant & Pregnancy Loss Doula program and your words will help me as I move forward in my work and continue to teach others as well as support parents who have experienced the loss of their baby.I hear that too all the time – I feel inside exactly the way you describe!
I drive and the tears just flow. How could I live without my flesh and blood, without the very beat of my heart? I survived because I had to.I am guilty of saying this because my therapist said it to me. !I miss my son so much. I am just trying to get through today so that I can go back to my closet and cry my heart out once again.This is my first time viewing your website and thusfar fond it very comforting.
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